Life can get so serious sometimes that you reach a point where you feel sadness. You might feel stuck and negative, too. In this post, we will explore how you can embrace positivity and clear out your worries regarding your future.
Understand why you lack positive vibes in your life
To start with a positive life, you need to know why you lack it in the first place, because the neutral of life is positive, so what is blocking positive energy from entering your life?
Why are you holding yourself back from happiness?
Do you believe you don’t deserve it, or do you fear you cannot handle it? I know this may seem silly, but you will be amazed by what is happening in your unconscious mind.
You will be surprised by the lies you believe but have no idea you do. Sometimes during your childhood, you might have been told that living happily ever after is unrealistic.
And somehow you believed it, you learned to not accept anything that excite you too much, maybe you were told it was childish to believe in such.
That is how you learned to just cut out everything that used to bring you pure joy, what a loss I know. But people do this all the time, you might be that adult who says that to children too.
Popping their balloons as they call it, you think you are doing them a favor. But is it life without BIG DREAMS?
Is it worth living if you believe that your blessings are limited? I am a very spiritual person, and still I believe in huge blessings, God can do the impossible for you.
I live by believing that nothing is ever too far to reach, you are an impossible creature to exist, you came from nowhere, your mom’s tummy was clean, and you were never there when she was 13, yet. Here you are today, smart and capable of more than just existing.
You my dear are a miracle in itself, so never believe you are limited, no rules apply to you.
You are God’s favorite, you are His and He will turn this world upside down just to draw a smile or hear your laugh.
He loves you in a way that is deeper than any ocean, clearer than the sky, and more beautiful than all the stars. No matter what you ask for, He will be proud to give you.
He says ‘Ask, and it is yours’ Just ask.
That is how far your dreams are from you, between your lips. You can unlock miracles that never existed.
Because you were made for them, if you are given the dream, then that is a sign that it is yours. It belongs to you, that is what God promises you.
So, who is the little human that told you to believe that you are unworthy? Did they help create you?
No…?
Do they help you handle the pain of disappointment? Anxiety? Depression?
Do they even listen to you?
No?
Then that human’s job is just to show you some lines that don’t even exist and tell you your limitations. They don’t even own this world.
If the owner tells you to go anywhere then you are limitless. You have no boundaries in your dreams, except for those that are meant to protect you from creatures like the one who drew these stupid limitations for humanity, fearing how far you can fly and be happy.
If they choose to live in fear, you don’t have to do the same. You can choose a different path, I promise you others will follow.
So here arises the question, how can you stop listening to those who try to stop you from living a positive life? One that you live happily in.
The answer is pretty simple, you can do that by building a strong personality. By that we mean, trusting yourself.
You can build self-trust by:
- Healing old wounds
- Becoming the best version of yourself
- Working on creating a better future for yourself
- Fulfil the promises you made for yourself
- Showing up for yourself
- Find ways to be happy alone
- Protecting yourself in every situation
- Getting out of your comfort zone
- Expressing yourself
- Allowing yourself to make mistakes
- Doing your best in everything
Create a nourishing morning routine
The beginnings of anything determine the end of it. So, make sure to start your day with a positive morning routine, one that leaves you feeling nourished and fresh.
To create a morning routine that fuels you with positive vibes, you need to understand yourself first. This time of the day is yours, you work solely to prepare yourself for the work coming. To do so, you need to add habits that make you feel ready for the day.
That is different from one person to another, to some people who would be starting their day by going on a walk, listening to a podcast, or silently enjoying the sound of the birds and nature surrounding them.
To others, it may be going to the gym meditating or even journaling. It is okay, do you?
There is no right or wrong way of creating your morning routine that is good for you, it just has to leave you feeling prepared and happy to start your day.
Remember that this life is yours, you do everything to make yourself happy. Satisfy yourself, so this time should be you giving love to yourself.
Prepare your meal, or if you enjoy eating in the restaurant, alone or with a friend or family member or even your partner. The purpose is to relax and allow your body and mind to wake up peacefully, without stressing out about how the day will turn out or the work that is waiting for you.
When you positively start your day, you invite joy and peace into your life. This way you end up moving on along your day with more energy.
Get Productive
The secret of positive vibes is being happy from within, which means you doing what you promised yourself to do.
Most of the time, you may find that positive people are those who are very successful in their career; that is because they have learned to fix their problems by working on them.
Becoming a productive person won’t just rid you of your problems but also make you feel important, which then leads to you feeling grateful, the highest vibration.
You can attract more positive vibes by working hard on what your soul is calling out for. This post may help you find the best job for you.
Create a plan that leads to a positive life
To live a happy and positive life, you need to have a plan you are working on that brings you hope for a better future.
This helps keep you positive and excited for what is coming, sometimes reaping our days over and over again with no vision may make us feel stuck, and this leads us to start feeling anxious and worrying about our future.
Which as we all know is the thief of joy and positive vibes, to avoid this make sure you have a clear plan that you are excited to see unfold. Something that can keep you awake at night and excite you to get out of bed in the morning.
It’s okay you can build a plan along the way, but if you already know what you want right now, then that is even better.
Hope for the best
You can plan all you like, but things will enter your life, to live a happy life you need to experience life with a positive attitude, even when things are going south, do not lose hope.
Become a person who sees the lights and if you don’t see them then believe that it is coming on their way to you. I know they say the energy you put out will help attract things to you, and maybe that is true, but I believe that when you have hope in your heart, you keep fighting, when you don’t you just allow things to happen to you.
If someone says something positive about you, you think they are just being nice, when you hear something negative you embrace it with everything. Believing it is true.
So why not be hopeful and positive and just see the side that brings you joy and makes your life easier?
Why not do yourself that favor?
Cut off anything toxic
Toxic habits and people are like disease, they steal away all the positive thoughts and swallow all your joy leaving you feeling nothing but emptiness. To lead a happy and positive life, you need to protect yourself from toxic energy, don’t be afraid to just cut them out.
Believe me the sooner you do this the better. You don’t want to end up drained of all your energy and peace.
These people tend to act like your friends, they give you what they call advice to you that ends up destroying your mentality.
Let’s say you got a new job, they won’t just come to congratulate you, no, they make sure to scare you about your new job as well.
This way they feel superior that they have stolen away your joy, they hate to see others happy while their life feels horrible. They will do anything to prove that your life is terrible as well.
Even if they have to create the problems themselves, so do yourself the favor and just cut them off.
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