Hello everyone. We all dream of living each day of our lives in peace and surrounded by joy and happiness. However, there are days when we feel like we are in the background of a movie with a different hero.
This is very painful, seeing those around us filled with laughter while we are living the worst days in our lives, feeling stuck each day.
This leads us to this question, is it possible to live every day as the best day of our lives? Are we capable of controlling our surroundings? Is happiness really in our hands?
These are the questions we are going to focus on in this post. So be prepared, go grab your favorite drink, and let us dive right in!!
Deep cleans your life
There is no peace when you are surrounded by unnecessary chaos. If you are a person that enjoys that and can live happily with it then go for it, but what I mean here is everything you don’t need anymore.
Old friends that are not serving you anymore. You hang out with them just because you have gotten used to it. Not anymore.
Throw away all the things in your life that you don’t use anymore. This way you make more space for new things that will bring joy and peace into your day.
Clean up your bedroom. Or your house (if you have one) Make sure you decorate it in a way that suits your new personality if you can.
Get rid of that toxic relationship. The one that steals all your time, energy, and joy. Do yourself and the other person a favor by letting them go.
I am sure you have tried everything to make it work, if you have reached a point where you feel that your peace has been taken away then I believe it has come the time to say bye-bye to that person.
You don’t need to worry about it, you will find love elsewhere. A place where you can enjoy it.
Clean up your life so that every day you will be surrounded by what makes you happy so that you will start living your best life and enjoy each day as your favorite day.
Find your passions and skills
See, I didn’t say job or goals whatever fancy word they use for those things we give to the world, and in the end, we feel disappointment because they never satisfy us.
Here is the thing, we thrive when we do what we love to do. Why?
Because you will never get bored to learn and grow in the area you love to be. If you love clothes and fashion, becoming a designer will make you happy, because you will enjoy each task instead of waiting to win some competition or earn a certain money.
Your happiness will be by doing not winning. You will enjoy every second you are working on each dress. Every day will feel like an adventure. You are allowing your inner child to enjoy each shape and color.
We were not created to stay in front of a computer hating our jobs. No, we were made for thriving. Success is very easy to us, what is hard is gonna be to cut off anyone that tells you otherwise.
That is why the first step was to let the scrawny mind go, you are free. Peace and joy run to you freely.
It’s curiosity that made humans invent all the things we are proud of having today. So, go where you feel excited to go.
Learn what you are passionate about and run there, enjoy every step on the way. Feel like you have entered a museum or you are diving underwater or admiring the stars. Whatever works for you.
Of course, make sure it’s not dangerous. That is where you will thrive, be happy, and be excited to show the world what you have found out.
This will also help you connect with those who enjoy what you do. This is where school failed us. We were not made to follow the instructions from others.
We are all smart, creative, and inventors, so stop allowing it to control how you think of yourself. This world needs your creativity. Don’t waste your time on what is not serving you.
You don’t need to be successful because you were born one. You already are.
Enjoy the details of your day.
Find a way to enjoy each second of your day. From the rising of the sun in the morning. To you listening to your favorite podcast on your way to work.
Find a way to romanticize each moment in a way that satisfies you. Your happiness matters.
Dress up, and eat delicious meals that look amazing even if they are homemade. Feel each drop of water when you take a shower. Stay alive.
Feel, smell, see and hear. Use all your senses and be aware of it. Enjoy your life, it was made for you.
You are important, treat yourself as one. Stop doing things just to impress others when you are the one that matters.
Do what makes you happy. Your joy is the most important. You are the main character in your life. Live like one.
Today is your favorite day, don’t read this post as if you are forced to, enjoy each word, and feel every sensation. Pick up your favorite drink or even a snack, cozy up, and enjoy this moment.
Happiness is already within you, you know how to make yourself happy. Allow yourself to feel it.
You deserve to be as happy as everyone else. We have all made mistakes and that changes nothing from our worth. We deserve to live a happy, peaceful, and healthy life.
So, give yourself that, trust me everyone else over time will do the same, people have a habit of coping. So, if you do not like how you are treated, then ask yourself if you treat yourself well. Or did they learn that from you?
Create a beautiful bond with God
I know many people love to claim that they are not religious, they think it is something that is old-fashioned or unimportant.
The truth is, as a human you are weak. Staying close to God helps you a lot along your journey to find peace.
When you put all your problems to Him, you will start to notice how much weight has gone from your shoulders. You weren’t made to hold that alone, only God is capable of that.
Sometimes He sends you problems so that you can rely on Him, believe me. I used to be that girl who was independent and thought she could do everything on her own.
Guess what happened to her? She burned out and started having anxiety and stress all over until she was losing her mind from all the pain.
The moment she decided to rely on God everything disappeared, I swear it’s no joke. I felt so much peace and joy within me.
No matter what was going on around me, the peace within me was stronger and nothing could shake me. I became so much stronger that I allowed myself to dream as big as this world would allow.
People who are close to God get it all, truly. They have no worries about the future since it’s in His hands and He is kind and sweet and loving. I have never felt so loved in my life.
I wish this for you too, to just let go of all that stress that you alone as a human are incapable of holding by yourself. It doesn’t matter what people will say, do they care when you are low and losing your mind? No?
Then why do you care about their opinion so much, they are not the ones feeding you in your mommies’ tummy, or the ones who heal you when you are sick, or solve your problems when you think about giving up.
He cared a lot, I was suffering from depression, even though I was on this beautiful island with people I loved. But the moment I gave it all to Him, He gifted me with this peace and strong but gentle energy within me.
I would recommend you give God a shot. You never know, this might be the key you were looking for.
Don’t force things
I know we always hear about, fighting hard for what you love, and I agree with that 100%. But, you need to not force them, let them choose you as well.
I noticed for a long time in my life that I was working so hard to keep some relationships going they felt like a burden.
For a time, no one taught me, that you cannot force people to like you or want you. No matter how hard you try, if they don’t like you they won’t change their minds.
The only thing that will happen, is that they will waste your time or try to change you into someone they deem worthy of their love. And you deserve better than that.
There is nothing wrong with you, they are just not made for you that is all. So, stop forcing things, whether it’s a person or a job or whatever. What is meant for you won’t be that hard, it won’t stop working when you give up, and it will fight for you as well.
So, ask yourself if you have any friendship you feel like you are putting so much effort in and the other person is not doing the same.
Things that are made for you will require a small effort and will bring you so much joy. That is why you are always asked to do what you love because since you enjoy it, it would feel easy to you.
You shouldn’t beg someone to love you, love is given not earned. So, give your energy and time into things that are meant for you.
Your path is already made just for you and you have all you need to become the person who does great things, it’s just sometimes we waste our time on things that are far away from our path. They tend to drain us and give us minimum in return.
Something that steals away our joy and makes our lives dull. These things tend to make us feel unworthy. We forget ourselves on the way.
In your path you will shine, you will be the main character. Your people will make you feel special, they will love you easily.
Because you are easy to love, and very worthy of it. But, those who were not meant for you will find it hard, since they were made not to be part of your life.
Stop wasting your life working on things that require too much of work yet, give you small results.
Do more of what you are good at, and spend more time with those who naturally care for you.
Your dream career won’t drain you, it was made just for you. You are like a key, you can only open the doors that were made for you. Trying t unlock those doors that will never serve you will only waste your time and steal away your joy.
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